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BILLY BOY and the s4p congratulate you on closing the deal last night. But if you want to ensure a repeat visit, you’ll have to play the morning after just right. We find it a little disheartening when you have a great lay, only to blow it by some of the things said/done before they’re fully dressed and walking out the door.
To help make them begging for more, here’s not only what to do, but more importantly, what to avoid in order to have a shot making them your regular bedmate.
Don’t Expect Relationship Treatment. We get it guys, you have morning wood. But she might have a killer hangover. If you just met, she may be feeling a bit vulnerable once the tequila shots have worn off. Hell, she could be laying there trying to remember your name. Assess the situation before you going in for round two. Cuddle, kiss her neck, whisper in her ear. Go in slow to see if she’s game.
Clean Up. You’ve already got in her pants, now put yourself in her shoes. Anyone would want to freshen up a bit. Be a gentleman and offer her a spare toothbrush. Or arrive bedside with bagels and coffee. This move earns you some points. You’re being considerate while easing any bad-breath concerns. At the very least, you’ll both taste like fresh, dark roast coffee.
Put Her at Ease. Depending on the chick, she may be a bit self-conscious about her ‘morning after’ appearance. It doesn’t matter if she’s got serious bed head and is sporting raccoon eyes. You’re going to tell her she looks great. If you make her feel at ease, you’re making a good impression.
Don’t Be a Pussy. If you want to share your sheets with this gal again, you need to ask her out before she leaves. Nix the “I’ll call you later” line. Lock it in now over breakfast. Which brings us to…
Be a Good Host. Make a gesture to show that you’re still enjoying her company. You can make her breakfast and give her some of your duds to lounge in. Even take her to brunch and drop a little coin on her. But remember to keep things relaxed – after all, you did just see each other naked! If you make some time for her in the morning, you’ll create a favorable impression by not rushing her out the door.